Tag: Korea

Traveling solo is scary, most even say it’s lonely. Leaving the comfort of friends and family and all things familiar with no idea of what’s waiting for you when you land in a different city or country is outright daunting.

Traveling solo is grueling because when something goes wrong, everything is up to you. It will leave you with the only option of keeping away from everything and everyone you know. You have to figure out everything that it will make you think that it might be easier if you had a friend around.

Traveling solo is not all sugar, spice, and everything nice because you will never really know the attitudes of other people. Some are mean and rude. Some will deliberately avoid you. Some might not even talk to you, worse, they won’t even help you when you’re clearly lost and disrupted. Some will take advantage of you, really.

It is hard to take your own photo when you travel solo. Some people will look at you with such disdain and if you’re anxious enough, it will be all the more gut-wrenching. It is even hard to eat alone. Some people will take you for granted and make you feel as if you never really existed.

But here’s to the people who are afraid to travel alone: Yes, traveling solo is scary but it is liberating because you have to completely rely on yourself.

You will have to know that when you didn’t need to learn anything more, all you need is to trust yourself and be patient. Traveling solo is not lonely because you will meet people — far too great people— from different races with far different stories.

Traveling solo is grueling, as every other travel (even with your friends and family) usually are but have a brave heart. Travel mishaps are inevitable and you just have to take a deep breath, carefully assess the situation, and try your hardest to know what’s causing your distress. If it comes to worse, talk to other people and ask for their help.

Yes, some people are mean and rude but most of the people you’ll meet are nice, trustworthy, and lovely. However, you must have a good sense of people’s hearts. Be nice so that they will not take advantage of you. Learn to talk to people, better yet, connect with the locals because most often than not, they are extraordinarily helpful and adorable. Most of them will help you solve your problem without expecting anything in return.

It is hard to take your own photos when you’re alone, no questions asked. But most of the people around you will offer to take yours, even if it sometimes –okay always– means you have to take their photos, too. Trust me, you will be more creative. If you are shy to ask other people for that favor, then be brave enough to do the complete opposite: offer to take their photos, and they will take yours. Problem solved.

It is hard to eat alone is a myth. It might be surprisingly stressful to eat alone in a restaurant but you will get used to it. After all, it is sometimes cool not to share your food to anyone else.

And here’s to the people who are afraid to travel alone:
You are more than capable than you give yourself credit for. Convince yourself that it is okay to travel alone and the world is safe. You will have to chart your own course so traveling solo is not for the faint-hearted. Be brave or do not travel alone. Be your best self or do not go solo.

A quick guide:

1. Have a careful plan in place. Always, I repeat, always do your research for safety purposes.
2. Write that itinerary online, you can also print it for the contingency plan. Plan out where you want to go and how to get there. All you have to do is to stick to it, or not.
3. Connect with the locals. Learning the local language is not necessary but knowing some basic phrases is recommended.
4. Eat the place’s most recommended food and eat with your heart’s content.
5. Remember that you are safe and you will never be alone.

Trust yourself in every decision you make because you know what they say — life has a funny way of taking you to places you never know existed.

I urge you: go find buildings and mountains and oceans to swallow you whole. They will save you, in a way nothing else can.

Christopher Poindexter