What goes around comes back around, they say. But as I lay here on my bed today thinking of what’s there is to happen next, I guess most of the times, it is not happening. Especially when it comes to damn relationships.

It keeps bothering me for the longest time.

1. Why do relationships end?

Because men play the “Don’t text her unless she texts you first” game better than basketball and Dota 2. And if they did send a message, they’ll text you back slower than the snail mail, receiving just one word after two to three or more hours of waiting in agony. That’s utterly disgusting.

And women are doubtful creatures. A single text message means everything. Then there goes the fight, the bringing out of past issues, the yelling, then the breakup.

2. Why is it so easy for men to end it?

Because women are pessimistic. We always look onto the darker side of the world not realizing that they are there to follow our path, to guide us wherever we want to go. To support us in doing it. But then again, they are men. They should always be there to remind us that we are not alone. That they have accepted the responsibility to do things with us because you two are into a relationship.

Women, let us be more matured sometimes. That two people work together to keep the relationship steady. It is not us nor men to blame when bumps in the road make it harder to pass, for you two to get going. You two are responsible. Be matured enough to weigh things, that if it is truly enough to let go, just let it go.

3. Why Do Women Hold On?

We are vulnerable. We are not as strong as we always tell the world. We are fragile. We are the opposite of what we say when we are hurt and just in the edge of a breaking down. We hold on because of the false hopes. Hopes from men’s lies. That they won’t hurt us, will never leave us, will always be there for us. We hold on because, as the song says, when a heart breaks, it doesn’t break even. Because we give more than men deserve, we give not even half of what we can receive from them. We hold on to the memories, the times you (we) spent together.

Women, we are queens. We are the master of our own fate. Let us not let the opposite sex define who we are. And again, what does Rihanna said? Who run the world? Girls! And girls, let us all be women now. Be strong. Don’t hold on if it hurts you the first time the relationship fails. Because you can never fix a broken glass the way it should originally be. Never. Remember that.

God loves you.